Modern life makes people change think, life, habit a lot. Especially, today young people’s views on marriage are changing. They who get married and think to get married simply are about 17from to 20 ages. Just two persons love together and then they can get married. It is said that “Getting married young is a great way to find a new and strange in order to enjoy the life”. It is not really great idea, getting married young has a lot disadvantages in their life. I have a closed friend, who got married at 18 ages, has a two baby now. She got married too young so she has to face a lot of difficulty in her life, especially finance, effect to her children, a burden to her parents. Therefore, I strongly disagree that young people should get married.
One of the most important difficult things in young family is finance. They get married from 17 to 20 ages usually 18 ages. They have left the seat of the school in order to make a nest with a person who loved. It is also anybody’s guess how a person will change and grow once they are out of their teens. They are not a stable career to earn money to support their life. They prefer pleasure to work. My friend is an example; she doesn’t have a stable career and her husband too. Before getting married they don’t have any plans for themselves to support their life. Moreover, her husband without money, he is angry and grim her. Sometime he fights her a lot and becomes a violent person. They are always quarreling because they shortage money. He blames his wife and his children on a cause of the poor. Sometime he said” I want to divorce”. That is a reason way a lot of young family were broken. So perhaps one of the greatest disadvantages of people who married too young is rare of divorce, which is 50% or higher. Not only affect to physical but also affect to spirit. Some young family, his wife find the dead in order to escape the poor life. If you want to get married young, you must consider carefully. At least you had plans for their life before getting married especially your finance is steady.
Most of young people, they lack of understanding in a sexual and don’t control the birth. When the children were born from young couples, they usually were malnutrition. They are shortage a lot of things such as nutritious food, good condition to live and study. In addition, they teach their children to differ from another family. They are always scolding their children instead of advising them when they don’t obey or have mistakes. My friend is always scolding their children. The children cry a lot when their mother scolds or fights them. Looking her children is pale and thin, I feel really hurt in my heart. I love them and love their mother a lot. Because of loving and getting married young, they have to face difficulty in their life. They make their children shortage everything to support the children's life.
It is said “getting married young is a motivation to the couples in order to self-made. They don’t dependent on their parents”. For me, it is not really great. The young couples get married young that is a burden to their parents. Not only get married at 17 or 18 ages, but then live with their parents and be supported by their parents. The young couples have their parents to basic on their life. When they get into trouble with their family, they find their parents to share problems with them. The old parents don’t hesitate to give them some advices in order to solve problems. When the grandchildren were ill, the grand worries a lot. They give the children money to buy medicines in case their parents don’t have enough money. The parents of the young couple take care of and support money to them until they got on their feet somewhere down the road. The parent of my friend is an example. Although they are old, they always give their daughter some money to support her life. Because of loving her so much, they regret allowing her to get married too young. It is a burden to the parents of the young couples.
To sum up, getting married too young have a lot of disadvantages to the young couples. Marriage is one of the most important decisions, you will make in your entire life. You should consider carefully to get married; don’t hurry up getting married too young in order not to regret in your life.
