Self-confident

Have you ever lost your self-confident when you have to do difficult something? Sometime you think, your ability is limit. May be, you are scared then you are not brave enough to pass period of difficult time. It means, you do are not self confident. Me too, when I was a grade 12, although I was a good student, I didn’t have enough self confident to enter any university. My parents always decide everything for me, I just listen and do. My studying was arranged by my parents so entering to take two exams in the university I didn’t have idea. Although it was too difficult to me, I didn’t have self- confident to pass challenge.

On that year, I took part in the examination to enter the HCMC- University of Pedagogy and University Medical Center HCMC following my parent’s expectation .Because they thought, I could study well that the university to be suitable for me. After graduating in the university, I could earn job easily in order to support my life.I tried to study hard and do the test carefully but I fail all that the examination. My parents put all their faith in me very much because they have just only me. They hoped me to do pass examination but I made them disappointed. I was lost hope myself.

I didn’t want to do anything during period of that time. I gave up my studying and just stayed at home; I was scared to be looked by the eyes of everyone. I didn’t want to meet anyone. I was bored and discouraged lost self- confident. The blue sky still collapsed in front of my eyes. I felt a black cloud to approach me and I was powerless before everything was happening. I annoyed and blamed for my parents because they made me fail the examination. I talk with them just a little.

One day, I saw a newspaper about a lot of students the same as my situations. But they who passed difficulty were not pessimistic as me. Then I thought, I could lose almost anything expect my confidence. My parents advised me to continue to study again. They said” My daughter! You should do anything you like, we don’t intervene your studying. When you feel upset or uncomfortable, you should take a rest and share them with us. Don’t keep them in your mind or your heart”. Then, I burst out crying, I said in my tears” I so sorry to do something to my parents, I promise to try to study hard to enter the university. Please, to forgive my mistakes in period of this time”. After a few days my mood was better. I gradually became self-confident; I went on studying so that I could enter at the university not colleges.

After studying hard, I entered The University of Technical Education HCM City. Now when I get into trouble or face to difficult something, I always to find the good way to solve problem and do something in order to make me self- confident. Self- confident helps me to overcome difficulty in life.