Should parents smack their children?

Parents have a lot of ways to educate their children when they are stubborn did not listen or being made some mistakes. It is said that “Should parents smack their children to educate better”. There are many different ideas about that statement some persons agree another do not agree. For me, I strongly disagree; it depends on situations, ages and awareness of each child. Most of parents nowadays, they usually advise their children instead of smacking. Because smacking is not effective, sometime it makes their children become a violent child or a weak physical body, mental retardation.

Firstly, in the past parents could use that way to teach their children when they had mistakes, however; society in these days parents who just use our words to express their attitude or love to their children explain and approve mistakes of their children. They always hope their children to improve mistake and do not make mistakes again. For example, a child lost a golden ring or fail in the examination, his parents must be calm down and try to advise him. He will obey and do better. It is helpful and effective. The child feel comfortable than being smacked.

Secondly, many parents do not fully realize that the methods of parental care have a profound effect on the future of their children later. Children do is very delicate when their parents do something good or bad. They are in the habit of aping the grown- up especially they always imitate bad good quickly. Therefore, smacking to children not to be best way to teach them, they will become a violent or bad attitude to everyone around. Sometime parents smack their children, it makes them not obey and try to be hostile to the way; especially children are growing up from 6 to 17. Their mentality doesn’t accomplish. If children have knowledge and understanding, parents don’t need use smack just words to them. They can analyze and understand what mistakes they made and what should they do.

Someone says that some children are obstinate they may use smack to deter better than using words. Maybe it is effective, I agree but just a little. I also disagree smacking the children. It is harmful to the children, parents can make their children broke bones, or hurt and painful so much. It is unacceptable.

Finally, if parents are always smacking their children, it will become a bad habit. For example, sometime parents are angry something and they blame their children when they just make a little mistake, children will be smacked by their parents. If the situation is too long, it makes the children fell disappointed their families which don’t base inspirit to go on living. In addition, children want to find to live faraway the family in order to rescue themselves to avoid be smacked. Some children couldn’t stand smacking, they find to death.

All that reason why I don’t agree, we shouldn’t smack our children because they need to educate on a good environment no violent. It makes a good way to teach their children better and understand them so much.